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Cheer practice starts this coming Thursday. As in 3 whole days away. Basically 75 hours from now. I have mixed emotions. First, I am sad that my summer is coming to an end. It has been a good one. Unusually hot, but still good. On the other hand, I am excited to see the girls and get geared up and work hard and have them live up to their potential. I am excited about the propects of what this squad is capable of and how far they can go. But, I’m also worried that they aren’t going to push themselves much and will rebell against me pushing them. We shall see. I’m gearing up for a big pep talk first thing on Thursday.
Besides getting ready for practices to begin, I’m trying to jam an incredible amount of stuff into the next couple of days with a somewhat weird schedule. Sounds pretty much the same as my life usually is from this time through mid March. I never understand how other people can get so much stuff done! I figure they must not sleep. But I shouldn’t complain. This weekend I was talking to some friends about facebook (which seems to have become overrun with people these days) and told them that my pet peeve is when people will write a status like “I have so much to do today! I don’t know how I’ll ever get it all done.” And the response in my head is always, “Well, get off the damn facebook and maybe you’ll have a chance!” Of course I never actually say that in a comment. Because that would be impolite and confrontational. And then I’d get uncomfortable.
Anyway, I’m just reporting my schedule to you. I’m not complaining. So no one needs to confront me about the fact that I’m blogging right now instead of actually getting my crap together and getting something accomplished.
I can’t believe that tomorrow is the last day in June. It went by really fast. But looking back I realize I did so much and had a good time throughout it. Three cheers for June!
I just got back from cheer camp on Saturday. It was by far the best camp I’ve taken my squad to in the last 5 years that I’ve been a coach. It was a fairly small camp because some other schools that had been signed up were still in school due to making up for snow days. Can you imagine? Still in school during the 4th week of June? Ugh. But it made camp nicer for the teams that did make it because we got a lot more individualized attention. And the girls did great! I think 16 (out of 21) of them were nominated for All American and 6 actually made the All American team (I think there were only 12 total for the entire camp). One of the girls was named Top All American of the camp for the second year in a row (and she’s only going to be a junior this year). One of the seniors was “apped” at the end of the camp. That means that the NCA staff thought she was good enough to try out for their staff next year and she got a special application to do so. The team as a whole won the “Top Performance Team” award and received a Nationals bid. And the other coach and myself won a “Been There, Done That” award acknowledging our commitment, knowledge and dedication to our squad and to cheerleading as a whole. All in all it was a fabulous 4 days. Except for the mattresses we slept on in the dorms – we called them our “cement slabs”. It was seriously an adult version of a crib mattress. And there was a ginormous hill that we had to go down and up 3 times a day. Which was never fun, but at least I felt like my legs and butt were getting a good workout. Makes up for all the cafeteria food we ate there (which was actually pretty tasty). And now I have a break until August!!!
On to other summer plans. I’m leaving for Alaska this Friday. I’m going to be there for about 10 days, but already I’m wondering how I’m going to cram in all my plans. There are a lot of people to see. Last time I was there it was for a short trip around Thanksgiving so I didn’t get to see a whole lot of my friends for very long. I’d like to be able to spend a little more time with everyone. And some of my other out of state friends will be up there because it is our 10 year high school reunion and we’re all heading back for it. (Can I just say that I’m so looking forward to the day after the reunion? Not because I’m nervous about seeing anyone, just because even the idea of planning this event has caused me anxiety for the past year and now I won’t have to think about reunions again for another 10 years.) I also get to help with one of my best friend’s younger brother’s wedding. He is getting married to his high school sweetheart who I actually knew when she was just a wee toddler. And I’ve known the groom since he was in middle school. Whenever I think of him I just think about him doing calf raises on their stairs because he wanted to get stronger so he could make the 8th grade basketball team. And now he’s getting married! And of course I’m excited to see the neice and nephew. I sent a card to my neice to tell her that I’d be coming and that I hoped we could have a sleepover. My mom told me that she was very excited about this prospect and had already decided we’d do it at Granny and Granddaddy’s house rather than her own (I have a feeling that’s because she gets spoiled more there).
Anyway, lots of blah blah blah here in this post. But I’m excited. Excited about what this past month has brought my way and what’s coming around the corner. And thinking a lot about how blessed I am. And that I have a good life. And that I’m a lucky girl.
I should be getting ready for bed right now. Actually I should be in bed and have been asleep for awhile. And I’m tired but I’m not sleepy. My brain is still whirring from the day. And not about anything exciting. Tuesdays are just my really long days right now. I go straight from work to a 3 hour cheer practice to the grocery store to grab something quick for dinner and then on to my small group (always arriving at least 15 minutes late) and then finally home. So thoughts and ideas pile up all day and I hardly have time to process anything until the time I should be getting into bed. I’ve found that I’m definitely someone who has to sit in front of the tv and watch something inane before I can even think about falling asleep (tonight it was 8 minutes of Friends, an episode of Sex and the City, and about 2 minutes of House Hunters International). I don’t like that I have this habit. Mostly because I don’t like that I depend on tv to help shut me down. That doesn’t seem to be the healthiest thing. I think right now I just need a break. Good thing I’m taking next week off of work! I’ve been feeling anxiety slip back into my mind/body/soul and it scares me because I know how paralyzing it can be for me. And while I can see where having some concern about different things coming up or going on in my life would be okay, its the sense of dread and negativity always at the tip of my brain that just wears me out and gets me in a sort of state of nausea. I think at the moment a lot of this stems from cheer (random different parts – it is by no means all bad right now) and I’m so looking forward to July just because we’ll be done with camp and we won’t have practice or many events until at least mid August. It is reminding me a lot of my first 2 of years coaching when I’d wake up with worst case scenarios running through my head and then I wouldn’t be able to fall back asleep. Its not at that point, but I fear that it could get there. Ok, I had no idea this post was going to get all deep and troubling. Apparently that’s what’s on my brain that I hadn’t processed yet and can’t shut off yet. Ugh.
Yay for June! I can’t believe how fast this year is already going by, but I am excited for this coming month for a bunch of reasons.
1. I’m taking next week off of work. Our PTO runs from July – June and we have to use it all up in the year or else we lose it. For some reason this year I had a quite a bit left over and had to figure out what to do. But I’m already going to Alaska in July so a trip up there seemed silly and I didn’t have anyone to travel with somewhere else. But I do have a bunch of stuff I’ve been either putting off here at home and stuff I’ve just wanted to do but haven’t had time. So I decided to stick around town and take care of it. I’ve got a big list of stuff to do and I’ve got to make a plan so that I have at least half a shot at actually following through. I am really hoping that I get my act together and take advantage of this time rather than just sleeping in and watching tv all week.
2. My roommate and I are planning to go to Friday Harbor for a day next week. Its her finals week and she’ll be done with tests pretty early in the week so our time off timing worked out well. We went last year and it was so beautiful and we had a great relaxing day.
Friday Harbor
3. I get to see my friend Danyeal. But only because I’m mooch and needed a place to stay in the Seattle area and called her out of the blue to see if I could stay at her place. But luckily she is a very gracious person and immediately said yes. It’s only for one night and I have to be somewhere pretty early the next day (thus the need to be down there in the first place). Anyway, I haven’t seen her since November so I’m excited to get to hang out with her even if its just a short time.
4. Cheer camp is at the end of the month. I’m looking forward to this for 2 reasons. First, the girls always learn a ton and even though its tiring and can be overwhelming it is always a good experience on the whole. And second, once we’re done with camp I’ll have a break for about a month and a half! I love coaching, but having time away always makes it better when we get back at it.
5. So You Think You Can Dance is on TV. Okay, so technically this season started in May, but it’s about to get to my favorite part (basically anything past the auditions). I grew up dancing and this show makes me wish I was 17 again and dancing all the time and could go and audition myself. And this time some of my friends are coming over to watch along with me which always makes it more fun.
Finally I got some stuff done. Finally! Yesterday I had a productive day at work and then I went to our first practice with the brand new cheer squad and then home for a short break while eating dinner and watching my dvr’d Greek and then lo and behold, I cleaned my room, my bathroom, did 2 loads of laundry, sorted through and dealt with a big pile of paperwork I have, and paid bills. Finally. It felt really good to just get some stuff out of the way. There is of course much more on the to do list, but that doesn’t matter at this moment. Instead I just need to bask in the glow of feeling accomplished. As I read other blogs (mostly of strangers) I’m always amazed at those people who can just go, go, go every single day. They get up before 5am and hit the floor running until they go to bed after midnight. At least that’s what it seems like. My body and mind just do not function that way. In fact I’ve found more and more that sometimes I just need a whole day to completely veg out. Which is what I did on Sunday. Maybe that’s why it was much easier to get stuff done yesterday? Anyway, whatever the reason it felt nice.
Our first practice was fun. I’m looking forward to getting to know the new girls and it’s always fun to see the girls who will be cheering their third year step up into leadership roles. Every year I have the sense of things going by so fast and I can never believe that my little babies (which is what I lovingly call sophomores) are already going to be seniors. And it’s always funny to watch them when there are no older girls in the room – they definitely realize that they are top dog now and they definitely like that feeling. I also noticed that I felt really comfortable in my role. I think that comes with this being the sixth squad I will have coached but also the relationship I have with this senior class is much different than any other senior class before it. I think I’m finally getting old enough to feel the distance between us and that makes me feel more comfortable because I know they can’t question my authority as much. Not that I’m a crazy domineering coach, but it can be hard to discipline a girl who is only 5 years younger than you (like my first year coaching). Anyway, enough about all that. It was good and I’m looking forward to seeing how this year pans out.
